w2ch is that grandparent you have that you're expecting to die soon, but they never actually do. You've accepted their fate and are pretty sad to see them go, but you're not going to cry.

You're not going to cry, but they won't die.

So, when the day finally comes that they die, you weren't expecting it. Their death takes a toll on you since it was such a blind-side hit. You end up crying and telling stories about your grandparent to your friends, about how they were awesome.